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	<title>Comments on: Bu**er, and the missing letters aren&#8217;t &#8216;t&#8217;s</title>
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		<title>By: PMDD &#8211; Has anyone else heard of this?&#160;&#124;&#160;Jo Beaufoix</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-47229</link>
		<dc:creator>PMDD &#8211; Has anyone else heard of this?&#160;&#124;&#160;Jo Beaufoix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 12:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] don&#8217;t know if you remember my kind of desperate post from a couple of months ago.  Well I&#8217;ve moved on a lot and we have finally put the problem [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Jo Beaufoix</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-13600</link>
		<dc:creator>Jo Beaufoix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 19:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow everybody, thank you so much.  I&#039;ve tried to reply t these individually but if I missed you I am truly sorry and it wasn&#039;t intentional.  I&#039;ve gotten to the bottom of some of this now and am on the way to getting sorted.  Thank you so much for being there and being so warm and honest and funny and lovely.  You are a wicked.  xoxoxoxo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow everybody, thank you so much.  I&#8217;ve tried to reply t these individually but if I missed you I am truly sorry and it wasn&#8217;t intentional.  I&#8217;ve gotten to the bottom of some of this now and am on the way to getting sorted.  Thank you so much for being there and being so warm and honest and funny and lovely.  You are a wicked.  xoxoxoxo</p>
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		<title>By: Kimberly</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12741</link>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 16:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know this feeling all too well, hun.  That wanting to feel that you&#039;re sufficient in and of yourself.  That meds, vitamins, proper sleep and all that...are just crutches.  I look at people I think are normal and think I should have it in me to be like them.  Able to live independent of the &quot;help.&quot;  My pride balks at admitting that I need those things, and so sometimes I just...stop.  Stop treating myself right.  Stop accepting that for whatever reason I have to deal with this struggle and always will.

There are good days though, when I realize that I am learning and growing in ways I otherwise would not.  That &quot;normalcy&quot; isn&#039;t always a blessing.  I think we lead richer, fuller lives this way.  Despite the angst and grief of it all.

It could just be that we&#039;re so unspeakably fabulous that if we didn&#039;t have this to knock us down a peg or too we&#039;d be insufferable.  =)

Love you soooo much.  ~hugs~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know this feeling all too well, hun.  That wanting to feel that you&#8217;re sufficient in and of yourself.  That meds, vitamins, proper sleep and all that&#8230;are just crutches.  I look at people I think are normal and think I should have it in me to be like them.  Able to live independent of the &#8220;help.&#8221;  My pride balks at admitting that I need those things, and so sometimes I just&#8230;stop.  Stop treating myself right.  Stop accepting that for whatever reason I have to deal with this struggle and always will.</p>
<p>There are good days though, when I realize that I am learning and growing in ways I otherwise would not.  That &#8220;normalcy&#8221; isn&#8217;t always a blessing.  I think we lead richer, fuller lives this way.  Despite the angst and grief of it all.</p>
<p>It could just be that we&#8217;re so unspeakably fabulous that if we didn&#8217;t have this to knock us down a peg or too we&#8217;d be insufferable.  =)</p>
<p>Love you soooo much.  ~hugs~</p>
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		<title>By: Thalia's Child</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12736</link>
		<dc:creator>Thalia's Child</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 06:33:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think self-reflection leads to self-awareness. And sometimes that leads to a need to get out the emotion... I know I&#039;ve posted about my struggled in the past too...

When I&#039;ve shared my struggles, I&#039;ve been overwhelmed by the number of people who also have similar struggles, and I know I&#039;m not alone, and that gives me resolve - and likewise, when others share their struggles, I don&#039;t think &#039;whinger!&#039;, I am grateful for a community where we are comfortable enough to talk about those struggles, and again, I don&#039;t feel so out of place in mine.

I hope writing it our helps, but I hope knowing that you have a cheering squad also helps out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think self-reflection leads to self-awareness. And sometimes that leads to a need to get out the emotion&#8230; I know I&#8217;ve posted about my struggled in the past too&#8230;</p>
<p>When I&#8217;ve shared my struggles, I&#8217;ve been overwhelmed by the number of people who also have similar struggles, and I know I&#8217;m not alone, and that gives me resolve &#8211; and likewise, when others share their struggles, I don&#8217;t think &#8216;whinger!&#8217;, I am grateful for a community where we are comfortable enough to talk about those struggles, and again, I don&#8217;t feel so out of place in mine.</p>
<p>I hope writing it our helps, but I hope knowing that you have a cheering squad also helps out.</p>
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		<title>By: charrette</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12735</link>
		<dc:creator>charrette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 03:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oops! Forgot my URL. Having a daft spell here!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops! Forgot my URL. Having a daft spell here!  <img src='http://www.jobeaufoix.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: charrette</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12734</link>
		<dc:creator>charrette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 03:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, Jo -- I&#039;m so sorry you&#039;re battling this again right now. (Doesn&#039;t it seem like the wittiest and kindest people, the ones who life everyone else, are often the silent sufferers with Depression? Ah, life and its ironies...) I could relate to so many, many aspects of this post, and it is so beautifully written. I hope you find a way to pull yourself back up on top soon... 

Hugs from across the pond --</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, Jo &#8212; I&#8217;m so sorry you&#8217;re battling this again right now. (Doesn&#8217;t it seem like the wittiest and kindest people, the ones who life everyone else, are often the silent sufferers with Depression? Ah, life and its ironies&#8230;) I could relate to so many, many aspects of this post, and it is so beautifully written. I hope you find a way to pull yourself back up on top soon&#8230; </p>
<p>Hugs from across the pond &#8211;</p>
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		<title>By: holly</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12732</link>
		<dc:creator>holly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>also a reminder that you rock. not just a little. a lot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>also a reminder that you rock. not just a little. a lot.</p>
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		<title>By: holly</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12730</link>
		<dc:creator>holly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:52:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it totally looks like i am a crappy friend for just now coming to this. HOWEVER. i wasn&#039;t in bloggy land AT ALL. i want to drive up there now and hug you. 

perhaps you should start taking the evening primrose in the day time too. or maybe you could take daytime primrose?

i&#039;m trying. a little smile? please?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it totally looks like i am a crappy friend for just now coming to this. HOWEVER. i wasn&#8217;t in bloggy land AT ALL. i want to drive up there now and hug you. </p>
<p>perhaps you should start taking the evening primrose in the day time too. or maybe you could take daytime primrose?</p>
<p>i&#8217;m trying. a little smile? please?</p>
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		<title>By: Nola</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 01:24:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Be well. And do what you need for yourself to Be Well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Be well. And do what you need for yourself to Be Well.</p>
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		<title>By: Belle</title>
		<link>http://www.jobeaufoix.com/2008/09/19/buer-and-the-missing-letters-arent-ts/comment-page-1/#comment-12717</link>
		<dc:creator>Belle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 01:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hugs, hugs and more hugs.  So sorry to have only just picked up on this.  If I can be of any help, just shout x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hugs, hugs and more hugs.  So sorry to have only just picked up on this.  If I can be of any help, just shout x</p>
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