The reality of splitting is hitting home tonight and emotions are running high. There is just such a lot to do and nobody seems to have written a manual. I suppose the thing is that everyone has such different circumstances, and rules and regulations change constantly.
So while Mr B and I have a ’sort out’ chat tonight, I leave you with another lovely nature shot.
Cough.

Yep that’s one, two, three, four drakes staking out that poor lady duck.
Sighhhhh.
The joys of spring, gulp!




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March 24th, 2009 at 2:52 pm
Wow! I thought THose were fake!
Hope all goes well for yall!
March 24th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Bless her heart, she’ll be sitting on eggs soon, then rushing young ones to the nearest pond…sighhh…in the meantime, don’t make any rash decisions or give up claim to anything that you really really want…take time to think things through. Don’t rush this, hon…that’s when you make the most monumental blunders of all, trying to rush and appease…the hell with appeasement! Okay?
hugs to you
Sandi
March 24th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
I don’t think there’s any way this can be easy. But being calm and kind and reasonable probably goes a long way towards easy-ER. I’m so proud of you, but worried for you too. ~Hugs~
March 24th, 2009 at 3:16 pm
She needs a stick to beat them off with, poor?
Hope your chat goes well, and your road is less rocky from then on.
March 24th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Someone’s in for some serious lovin’!! Haha
Good luck tonight.
xoxo
March 24th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
hugs, Jo! I wish there was an “easy button” for all you are going through.
I’m sending good thoughts your way.
March 25th, 2009 at 12:30 am
hang in there i really do feel for the both of you.
March 25th, 2009 at 4:13 am
Reading between the lines Jo, which I frequently do, it all sounds a bit stressful your end. Keep your chin up!
March 25th, 2009 at 5:54 am
Oh, lazy ducks, are sunbathing. LOL
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Humor & Fun World
March 25th, 2009 at 6:46 am
Having had two failed relationships behind me, I feel I ought not to comment! However…. I didn’t do myself justice in either of the splitting and have since recommended my sister does as she goes through hers. Not an easy time for you. Lots of love.
CJ xx
March 25th, 2009 at 6:59 am
I can only imagine how tough a time it is for you all , but cute ducks
March 25th, 2009 at 7:58 am
I hope it wasnt too awful …
Not a very attractive locale for seduction …
March 25th, 2009 at 8:59 am
I hope the chat helped to ease some of the tensions. xoxo
March 25th, 2009 at 10:45 am
Keep your chin up, Jo. These things are difficult to get through, but not impossible. You need to untie the knots and some of them are tricky, but they will become untied. Remember one problem at the time, one day at the time, one step following the other. Don’t rush.
Love,
Irene
March 26th, 2009 at 6:34 am
Hugs xxx Heres me, late as usual. Looks like of got some reading to catch up on. My boycotting of the computer has really left me out of the loop all over the place. Smoochies to you. Take care.